Disabled HALF-MAN Dances & Grooves to Beyonce’s music!

Disabled HALF-MAN Dances & Grooves to Beyonce’s music!

Every Gay Person LOOOVES Beyonce..And this is why we do....ACTION!!...Oh Yea And Lady Gay Gay

PURE Genius......

Free Turkeys From Steve....People, You Better Get Up On This!!!!

         According to Eurweb, Steve Harvey and his wife are lending a helping hand to feed more than 6,000 needy families:

        On Nov. 23, Steve Harvey and his wife Marjorie will give away more than 6,000 turkeys to needy families across the country, as well as host “Steve Harvey’s Big Turkey Give Day” in Chicago with two daytime events in the cities of Markham and Chicago.
         As part of the nationwide giveaway, the Harveys will team up with Steve Harvey Morning Show affiliate stations in 53 markets to distribute thousands of turkeys, with live on-air gives taking place in 10 of those markets.

        During the Big Turkey Give Day, the Harveys – in conjunction with V103/WVAZ-FM in Chicago – the couple will personally give away 1,000 turkeys and 1,000 ropes of turkey sausage courtesy of Hillshire Farm to Chicago-area residents.

For full details on giveaway locations and times, visit www.steveharvey.com.

Are You Being Harrassed At School Because Of Your Sexuality??

Harassment at School Info

via www.glad.com

LBGT Students

Lgbt Flyer for Students

via www.glad.com

How To Get Married in New Hampshire (Same Sex Couples)

How to Get Married Nh

Nicki Ménage à trois

So recently i've recently become addicted to this new and upcoming emcee from New York by the name of Nicki Minaj. She is signed to Lil Wayne record label Young Money/Universal. She is a breath of fresh air to the hip hop community. And she definately came at the right time. And I say that because at the moment there are absolutely no female rappers out there. Even though she doesn't like to be compared, she definately reminds me of a Lil' Kim and Foxy Brown from back in the day. She raps like a dude and keeps it cute and animated for the ladies at the same time. She is VERY VERY EXPLICIT
           Minaj has yet to even come out with an album yet. But she has done a mixtape entitled "Beam Me Up Scotty". That was FIRE!!!!...but she definately been on Lil Wayne's mixtapes and been featured on remixes. She keeps raw, sexy and hood all at the same time, so I guess that's what makes her relatable.


There have been numerous rumors that Nicki Minaj is into femles. Hence the last name.Hahahaha..Amber Rose, who is Kanye West 's openly bi-sexual girlfriend has made advances to the rapper before.Over the summer she did a interview about her sexuality.


It is said that she is infact bisexual. Which makes her even more attractive to me...lol...but there are some videos on http://www.youtube.com/ that kinds of put it out there.


Nicki Minaj has even performed at Virginia State University for homecoming. I heard she killed the stage. TT Torez had a opportuinty to interview her about her upcoming events and projects. And if you look closely they are in the girls' locker room...lol


Personally I think Nicki is tri-sexual meaning she'll try anything...lol.
Either way she is talented and I look forward to hearing more of her.

Cheerleader Gets A Flu Shot & Now She Can Only Walk Backwards or Run!

Bea Arthur Leaves A Generous Donation

(CNN) -- "Golden Girls" star Bea Arthur's generosity lives on.

Bea Arthur who is known for role on " The Golden Girls" as Dorothy but this time around she is known for her generous, loving heart. The actress, who died in April, included a $300,000 donation to New York's Ali Forney Center, an organization supporting homeless LGBT youth, in her will, leaving center Executive Director Carl Siciliano overwhelmed by her kindness.


Siciliano said he knew of Arthur's plan to include the center in her will, but never knew the amount.


He had been struggling to keep the doors of the shelter open. The organization assists more than 1,000 people each year, providing shelter for those who had to leave home "for being who they are," Siciliano said.


"The last year and a half, since the economic crisis started, it's been really hard to keep this program going," Siciliano said. "A lot of the foundation and corporate money that we used to get has dried up, and we've been growing. Every day, we have about 125 kids a night waiting to get into our housing."


But on Tuesday morning, a FedEx carrier delivered a $300,000 check.


Siciliano said he immediately started to cry. Arthur's donation couldn't have come at a better time.


"For months, I've been really sweating to make each payroll, and we're usually a month or two behind on our rent, and there have been times when I was afraid that I wasn't going to hold it together," he said. "That kind of terror of [trying to] keep this thing going has come to an end for now with this extraordinary generosity."


Arthur's relationship with the center goes back to 2005, when the stage and screen star agreed to do a benefit at the request of a former set designer to help ease the center's growing pains.

"At that time we were a really small, grassroots organization. We were only sheltering 12 kids at a time," Siciliano said.


The amazing thing, he added, is that Arthur "didn't realize at that point what a serious issue it was, that so many thousands of gay kids were on the streets of our country."

Nevertheless, she was on board. She flew to New York to reprise her one-woman show, "Bea Arthur on Broadway: Just Between Friends" for one night only, raising more than $40,000 for the organization and contributing another sizeable personal donation.


But her generosity didn't stop once the curtain fell. Arthur consistently raised the issue of LGBT homeless youth in press interviews, such as her November 2005 interview with Next magazine.


"I'm very, very involved in charities involving youth," Arthur said in the interview. "These kids at the Ali Forney Center are literally dumped by their families because of the fact that they are lesbian, gay or transgender -- this organization really is saving lives."

With Arthur's donation, Siciliano hopes he can save a few more. Part of the $300,000 will go toward buying a residence that can house 12, and Siciliano plans on naming it after the woman who helped make it happen.


"To have her choose to shine that kind of light on us was remarkable," Siciliano said. "She became an advocate for the issue; she said she would do anything that she could to help these kids."

Arthur was also an advocate for gay rights, saying she once considered a gay relationship after a bad divorce. "With all the improvements and all the people who've become so much more knowledgeable, there's still an enormous amount of vicious homophobia," said Arthur in a 2001 interview with Out Magazine.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/TV/10/29/bea.arthur.donation/

"Lady Gay Gay" At It Again!!!...She's Hilarious...hahaha

On October 11, 2009 while speaking at the National Equality March, in front of thousands of gay rights supporters, singer Lady Gaga has words for President Obama.

Go Obama, Go Obama!!! Nobel Peace Prize Brutha!!!

Barack Obama has just won the Nobel Peace Prize!! You now join Martin Luther King, Jr. and many others with this momentous place in history.

Humbled....Mr. President had to say via his twitter about this extraordinary moment in his life.

Now that this is all set and done, The World is voicing their opinion about this headline that has spread across like a wildfire. Some people are praising our President for his goal and some are knocking him down for such an “early prize.”

In the Kenyan city of Kisumu, the home province of Obama’s father, radio shows interrupted broadcasting to have live phone-ins so callers could congratulate Obama on his win. Traders in the market huddled around hand-held radios and touts shouted the news from the windows of local minibuses.


“When I heard it on the radio I said Hallelujah!” said 65-year-old James Andaro. “It’s God’s blessing. This win is for Africa.”


But there was far less enthusiasm in areas where America’s foreign policy is resented.


Iranian Foreign Minister Manouchehr Mottaki called the awarding of the prize “hasty and too early.”


“We have no objection if this prize is an incentive to reverse the warmongering and unilateral policies of the previous U.S. administration and if this encourages a policy based on just peace,” the semiofficial Mehr news agency quoted Mottaki as saying in an exclusive interview.


“The appropriate time for awarding such a prize is when foreign military forces leave Iraq and Afghanistan and when one stands by the rights of the oppressed Palestinian people,” he was quoted as saying.

Source: http://www.therundown.tv/

Rihanna reveals her Album Release Date on TWITTER!

Rihanna reveals her Album Release Date on TWITTER!

Damn Leona Lewis!!!!

Off topic once again but this is funny as hell....
             So supposedly Grammy Nominated singer Leona Lewis (Bleeding Love, Better in Time) was chillin’ at a book signing for her new book entitled “Dreams” in London, when all of a sudden Lewis was punched in the head by Peter Kopwalczyk, a 29-year-old man from south London. Eyewitnesses say Lewis ran out with her hand covering her face, while security wrestled the attacker, who was reportedly laughing, to the floor. The police were called immediately to the scene and Kopwalczyk was arrested.
              “Leona’s spokesman says: Leona was a victim of an unprovoked attack this afternoon at her book singing,” the rep said in a statement. “The police were called immediately and medical attention has been sought. Leona’s understandably badly shaken and apologizes to the fans she was unable to meet and complete signings for.”

              Kopwalczyk was sectioned under the Mental Health Act.

BELOW IS THE AFTERMATH of THE INCIDENT...SmH (he don't respect her)

Lady Gay-Gay!!!

Chris Rock Being Sued For New Movie..smdh

       Well known comedian, Chris Rock is being sued for his new movie "Good Hair". According to celebritymound.com Chris Rock is being sued for plagarism. Allegedly he will be giving a director named Regina Kimbell 5 million dollars for his boo boo. Rock got the news almost an hour before his premiere of the movie in New York. 


        While at the premiere Rock didn't mention that he was being sued at all. He still spoke to reporters. And partied like a rockstar with celebrities that attended.
       Kimbell claims that Rock stole her 2005 documentary, “Nappy Roots.” Kimbell claims that she showed her film to Chris on the set of his TV series “Everyone Hates Chris” in 2007. Her movie even won the Pan African Film Festival’s best documentary award that same year.

        Both films seem similar. The synopsis for Kimbell’s film on mynappyrootsthemovement.com says the flick “takes an unparalleled look at how black hair is used as a prism through which to look at cultural, societal and political issues in the African-American community over time.” Well on the other hand Chris's movie talks about the same thing but from a celebrity point of view. Some of these celebrities include: Maya Angelou, the Rev. Al Sharpton, Ice-T, Eve, Kerry Washington and Lauren London.

NOW MR. ROCK KNOW HE WRONG FOR THAT!!!!

Are You Really??

           Everyday you have people in and out the lifestyle of a gay person. Lots of younger people think its a trend and its all in fun. I have numerous friends that get tied up with these heterosexual girls and they get hurt because in all reality these women were straight and had no intentions of being with them forever.

           People come to college and get loose, they feel like this is the experimental time in their lives. So you have girls that see friends engaging in something "different" and they wanna give it a try. Knowing damn well they're not homosexual or even bi. They don't realize that they are messing with someone's emotions.
         When I go to New York and chill in the village, I see really young kids together. It makes me wonder...do people think being gay is a joke?...because guess what?..ITS NOT!!!..no one chooses to be this way. No one wants to be judged, no one wants to go against the bible..No one wants to live the homosexual lifestyle...so when I see people playing around and thinking its a trend...I can't stress how bad gays have it and how we wish we weren't gay sometimes and how we wish we didn't have these uncontrollable feelings. If you are willing to deal with what comes with this lifestyle then come on down!!!

Movie of The Year: Precious

     WAYYYYYY off topic but this movie looks like it will be one of the best movies I've ever seen in my entire life of living...lol...drastic but im serious. It is called Precious. It is to be released November 6, 2009. Oprah Winfrey and Tyler Perry's names are on it, so that automatically means the world is going to see it...lol. It is directed by Lee Daniels(He is gay, what a coincidence).
              The movie stars Monique (Phat Girlz, and The Parkers), Mariah Carey(Grammy Winning Singer), and Paula Patton (Idlewild) and the lead role is by a new actress named Gabourey "Gabby" Sidibe. The film was awarded the Sundance Film Festival Grand Jury Award. The movie is also based on the book "PUSH" by Sapphire.
             I read this book in Junior High School. Never in a million years I would think that it would be a movie.

The plot goes as follows:

                Set in Harlem in 1987, it is the story of Claireece "Precious" Jones (Gabourey Sidibe), a sixteen-year-old African-American girl born into a life no one would want. She's pregnant for the second time by her absent father; at home, she must wait hand and foot on her mother (Mo'Nique), a poisonously angry woman who abuses her emotionally and physically. School is a place of chaos, and Precious has reached the ninth grade with good marks and an awful secret: she can neither read nor write.
             Precious may sometimes be down, but she is never out. Beneath her impassive expression is a watchful, curious young woman with an inchoate but unshakeable sense that other possibilities exist for her. Threatened with expulsion, Precious is offered the chance to transfer to an alternative school, Each One/Teach One. Precious doesn’t know the meaning of "alternative," but her instincts tell her this is the chance she has been waiting for. In the literacy workshop taught by the patient yet firm Ms. Rain (Paula Patton), Precious begins a journey that will lead her from darkness, pain and powerlessness to light, love and self-determination.


This movie is a must see, the trailer alone had me wanting more...lol

Gay Marriage/Same Sex Marriage....WHATEVER!!!

        So, do homosexuals have the right to get married? I think the answer to that Alex is......YES, sure why not. And im not saying this because im gay. Why should homosexuals be limited to that right. You have some people that is all for same sex rights but when it comes to two homosexuals getting married, they say HELL NO!!. Why is that? I think it has a lot to do with the fact that lots of straight people look at marriage as this spiritual commitment in GOD's house. And since being a homosexual in this world is unGodly and abomination, why should gays be allowed to get married? Then you have some that say, "well its just a piece of paper, why do you want it?" Then you think about it....."the same reason your married or want to get married!!!".

         Homosexuals believe that when your in love, that is the most dedication you can show one another. The straight society thinks that gays are all sleeping with each other and the relationships are built all on sex. That is not the case. Homosexual relationships are just the same as a heterosexual ones. They're loving and trustworthy to their mates. They understand the meaning of family life.

          I can name 6 reasons why people don't accept gay marriages:

            1) Its between a man and a women (since the beginning of time).

            2) The bible said its wrong.

            3) How will children be born?

            4) And if you do decide to raise kids, the enviornment is not a great one for a child.

            5) The church would have to conduct the union against their will.

            6) In all reality, people just think it's weird

      One of the reasons people get married is because of benefits. To my understanding when you have health insurance, you are allowed to put your partner's name on it as well. Homosexuals want the right as well.

        In this article I was reading, the author says:
When gay people say that this is a civil rights issue, we are referring to matters like the fact that we cannot make medical decisions for our partners in an emergency. Instead, the hospitals are usually forced by state laws to go to the families who may be estranged from us for decades, who are often hostile to us, and totally ignore our wishes for the treatment of our partners. If that hostile family wishes to exclude us from the hospital room, they may legally do so in nearly all cases. It is even not uncommon for hostile families to make decisions based on their hostility -- with results actually intended to be inimical to the interests of the patient! One couple I know uses the following line in the "sig" lines on their email: "...partners and lovers for 40 years, yet still strangers before the law." Is this fair?

           If our partners are arrested, we can be compelled to testify against them or provide evidence against them, which legally married couples are not forced to do. Is this fair?
In most cases, even carefully drafted wills and durable powers of attorney have proven to not be enough if a family wishes to challenge a will, overturn a custody decision, or exclude us from a funeral or deny us the right to visit a partner's grave. As survivors, they can even sieze a real estate property that we may have been buying together for years, quickly sell it at a huge loss and stick us with the remaining debt on a property we no longer own. When these are presented to a homophobic probate judge, he will usually find some pretext to overturn them. Is this fair?...........read more at http://www.bidstrup.com/marriage.htm

Homophobia

              According to wikipedia.com "Homophobia is defined as an "irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals, or individuals perceived to be homosexual; it is also defined as, unreasoning fear of or antipathy toward homosexuals and homosexuality...".
              When it comes to this subject, I feel like people choose to be this way. No one is born homophobic. And it is definately not like other phobias. Like I could understand if you have arachnophobia, which is the fear of spiders. This means you can't even be around this little insect. That is understandable, but when you can't be around a certain individual because of whom they sleep with at night which is none of your business is just plain ignorant. In some dictionaries homophobia is described as a fear of homosexuality or homosexuals, which again to me is stupid, because 1. You shouldn't fear no one except GOD. 2) How do you fear someone's lifestyle.

               I feel that homophobia is something that is embeded into someone's mind as a child so that they think if their around someone who lives this lifestyle they will eventually turn into "one". FALSE!!!. Others feel better when they build hatred for gays because deep down inside they may feel something for the same sex, so they feel if they bash them it won't show their true feelings. Like, i've known numerous straight females who said things like: "I hate gay people, their nasty", but it be the same ones talking to my lesbian friends couple months later. All they need is one person to change their mind about their perception.

            Homophobia also becomes a serious issues when one becomes violent toward oneself. Every year there are many suicides by gay men and lesbians, usually teenagers. Psychologists say it's not because of homosexuality, but is actually the result of how homosexuals are treated by society. When someone lives day by day being bashed, critized or judged, and society discounts one's value constantly, it can become hard to maintain perspective and realize that the problem is others' perceptions, not one's own, which is why suicide is several times as common among gay men as it is among straight men. The world can become very lonely.
             Gay people are human beings. So you shouldn't fear them. 

PDA!?!

             When you walk down the street, you see two men or two woman holding hands .You make a double take. Why is that? I see it on campus all the time. Yes it's absurd and not accepting, but why should they be judged. I think as long as two heterosexual people are allowed to hold hands so should a homosexual couple. The world can stomach that.
             But what they can't stomach is two homosexual people making out. Me being a homosexual person, even i think that is extremely too much. People hardly want to see heterosexual people make out. Gays have a tendency to be more dramatic, which leads to public affection. Some homosexuals like to be the center of attention.
             When I worked in the village, which is a very gay part of Manhattan in New York City, I seen that all the time. Old women would be in there eating and 2 men would come in and start showing extremely too much attention. This would actually cause them to leave or the women would say something to them and it would cause a major arguement. This made me feel some type of way. This time around I couldn't support "my people" because they were out of hand.

      So how do you feel when you see PDA from a homosexual couple???

What Is This Feeling?

        Not everyone is considered homosexual until they act upon their feelings. Lots of people are confused when it comes to this question. Some may feel they are because they look at the person of the same sex and they think they are pretty/handsome. That is not the case at all. Now if you were to approach this person and give them a kiss and you felt aroused then its another story.

         Only you can know if you are attracted to the same sex. And the only way to find out FOR SURE is to have a sexual encounter with the same sex. If you do it the 1st time, its an experiment, if you do it the 2nd time, you might say, the first time you were in shock and in disbelief so all of your feeling wasn't in to it. Now if you go back the 3rd time, YOUR GAY!!!!...(that is what I think). But you know your body more than anyone.

Here are some clues in case you don't wanna go all the way just yet:

1) Think back to when you were younger. What crowd would you relate to more?

2) Maybe you just like both.( that is if you were turned on by the same sex but still crave the opposite.

3) Think about, which gender crosses your mind in the middle of intimacy or when you have sexual thoughts (everyone does).

Don't Ask Don't Tell

            During his presidential campaign, Barack Obama advocated repeal of the policy to allow gay and lesbian people to serve openly in the armed forces, agreeing with General Shalikashvili and stating that the U.S. government has spent millions of dollars replacing troops expelled from the military, including language experts fluent in Arabic.

           The military has a strict policy about being openly gay. According to wikipedia.com, Don't ask, don't tell is the common term for the policy about homosexuality in the U.S. military mandated by federal law, the policy prohibits anyone who "demonstrate(s) a propensity or intent to engage in homosexual acts" from serving in the armed forces of the United States, because "it would create an unacceptable risk to the high standards of morale, good order and discipline, and unit cohesion that are the essence of military capability."

          This is place that says, Be all that you can be. I guess you can be everyting except yourself. You go to the military to serve your country nothing else, but you do have a personal outside the military, so why can't you date whoever you want openly. From my understanding if you get caught, you are discharged. Why should the military care who want to sleep with at night, just like its no one else's business. Am I right??

On Tha Low

           For the past couple of years, there has been a epidemic, which is "on tha low" or "down low/DL guys". Well the the word downlow/DL means to keep things on the hush hush or private. Then the second part of the phrase is the behavior of men who have sex with other men as well as women and who do not identify as gay or bisexual.
           Ok, so I know your thinking, "what the h*ll?". But yes people they are out there. These men cheat on their wife/girlfriends with other men. They don't tell their spouses a thing. They live a double life in most cases. They may even have a family at home, but they may sneak out and tell their wives or girls that there going to the bar with their boys, but little do their wives/gf's know, they are about to go shake their butts at a gay club....lol... This term has been associated with African American men the most.
          The messed up parts are that they are cheating, then it just happens to be a man..smh. Lastly the most hurtful part out of this little escapade is that they can bring back HIV/AIDS to their innocent wives/gf's that had no idea about this other life of theirs.
           The issue captured wide media attention in the early 2000's after articles on the issue were reported in newspapers like The New York Times. These reports showed America the correlation between the spread of HIV to straight African-American women by their down low partners.

           In 2004 an author named J.L. King, appeared on Oprah to talk about his life on the down low. He latered published a book called On the Down Low.

Justice for Gay Hate Crimes!!!!!

Everyday someone is bashed for being homosexual. These are what you called gay hate crimes. This is very serious. Even though people are a little more accepting of LGBT community. Gay & lesbian hate crimes continue to rise. Imagine walking to the store and you get harrased because of the clothes your wearing or even the way you walk. And while they are beating you, your getting called every gay slur there is.
        According to http://www.about.com/, "The federal hate crime laws do include the term "sexual orientation." As of July 2004, seven states have no hate crime laws at all, 20 states have hate crime laws that do not protect sexual orientation, and 24 states have hate crime laws that do include sexual orientation."

             What that means is that if someone commits a federal crime against a person because of their sexual orientation, this crime can be called a hate crime. However, if the crime is not a federal one, then it may only be considered a hate crime if it occurs in one of the 24 states with hate crime laws that include sexual orientation.

      Some good news out of all of this is About The Federal Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act of 2009:

The Federal Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act of 2009 (H.R. 1913) passed the U.S. House on April 29, 2009 by a vote of 249 to 175. The bill expands 1969 federal hate crime laws to include sexual orientation, gender expression or identity and disability. Previous hate crime laws gave the Justice Department authority to prosecute crimes motivated only by race, color, national origin and religion.
The Federal Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act of 2009 was first introduced in 2007. The bill, sponsored by Representatives John Conyers (D-MI) and Mark Kirk (R-IL), passed by a vote of 237 to 180..........(read more at http://gaylife.about.com/od/hatecrimes/p/matthewshepard.htm )

So You Wanna Come Out??

         Coming out is one of the hardest things you can ever do. I remember when I was 16 and I told my mother. It didn't go so well. I remeber texing her and telling her I didn't like boys. She said: "Are you sure?". Then later when she came home, I stayed out of her way. But she stayed in her room until the following night. That is when she called me in her room and said, "so what is the problem?". Before I answered, I seen all the tissue that surrounded her bed, so, I knew I had upset her. I began to tell her how, I didn't find guys attractive. She began to cry and cry, then said: "you could've least told me you wer bisexual, but gay (as she shook her head). Its not right!!..Even the bible said it's not right!!". Then the words I was dreading came out her mouth, " i'm not accepting it". I knew from that point on our relationship would never be that same, because me being a lesbian was a big part of my life. My mom and I relationship has always been close, but that would be the one thing I wouldnt be able to talk to her about. I told myself I won't bring it up again until I was financially stable, with my own place.


Now my dad, was easy. I told him over the phone and he said he would never judge me. And that year he even took me to Gay Pride in NY.


It can be hard and nerve wrecking but I wanna share some tips with you guys that might help you come out the closet to a loved one:


1) Take them out to dinner ( they won't act too crazy in public).


2) Make it intimate. Don't text or call over the phone.


3) Get ready to be asked some questions.


4) Get ready to be yelled at and even cursed out.


5) Bring a friend with you for support.


6) Get ready to talk very personal, even about sex.


7) Give them a book/ pamphlet or a website they can go to. They may want to understand more.


8) They might become distant for a couple of days and even weeks.


9) Worst case scenario, they kick you out, make sure you have some where to stay for the night or even a couple of nights.


10) Worst case scenario, if you have older parents or were raised by your grandparents. They may have a heart attack or they might pass out. It is possible.


Just understand this news is life changing and everyone wont take it nicely.


Here is a website of some openly gay celebrities.

Bisexual???

                The definition of bisexual is someone who is sexually attracted to both men and women, or engaging in both heterosexual and homosexual activity. I personally think that once you can get aroused by both sexes then you should be considered bisexual. Heterosexual people may look at this lifestyle and think this person is promiscuous. To that person they may think that they just don't have a preference. Bisexuality is a controversy in the homosexual world.Many homosexuals probably won't date a bisexual person for the simple fact that they are scared they might cheat on them.
                 Despite the fact that others won't accept it. You have parents that would rather hear that their child is bisexual as appose to homosexual, because there's still hope for grandchildren...lol

                  Bisexuality is also more seen in women that men. To me, men can't be bisexual. Any activity that they engage in with men, is considered gay. At the end of the to society your still all wrong and your apart of the LGBTQ (Lesbians, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered and Queer) community.

                  So the question is, who is considered bisexual really? Is it the girl that kisses other girls at the bar when she is drunk? Is it the one that likes affection from her female friend or is it that guy that sees another guy at the basketball court and thinks he looks good in his shorts.
                 The article I found was very interesting it was by Kathy Labriola, she is a counselor/nurse. She explains the different kind of bisexuals there are, from motivational to emotional and others. You will be surprised....maybe your bisexual...lol.

Are You Born Gay???

             I remember one day in high schoool, a group of my close friends were talking. The hot topic of the conversation was whether people are born gay or is it a choice they make in their lifetime. I never commented on anything  that day, but the reason I didn't was because I didn't know. I was always thought to my myself that no is 100% straight and no one is 100% homosexual. I think that we choose to act upon our feelings, which are then determined by society. Which in my case is "labeling" someone.

             I recently found a article that explained EVERYTHING!!!. It shows genetic studies and etc. It's a issue that is a big debate. See if you understand!

Why Dress The Way You Do?

                 I know some heterosexuals wanna know why do lesbians and gays dress the way that they do. You see masculine women looking like men. Then you have the flamboyant men, wearing tight jeans and feminine looking shirts. Lots of heterosexual people never understand why they dress similar to the sex they are not attracted to. Straight people think that they want to be the opposite sex and that is why they despise them.
                 This has a lot to do with the role they may play in the relationship that there in. As far as you can remember men are the masculine figures and women are the submissive ones. So, in some lesbian relationships, you have the butch/stud women. They play the role of the man in their relationship, so they would mostly be wearing The submissive women are called fems. Some masculine lesbian women might claim, this is what they feel comfortable in, which might be true.
                  Now when it comes to men, they kind of got it worst. To act flamboyant is one thing, but to dress the part of a female or similar to is not that accepting to society. Most gay men wear clean cut, more fitted attire as appose to straight guys that aren't really particular about their clothes. I think that gay men care so much about how they look because of who they are trying to attract, which are usually the masculine men.

Some Parents Just Don't Understand!!!!

              Parents usually never understand their children. Now imagine a parent who has a homosexual child. That has to be one of the most uncomfortable situations to be put in. Lots of parents blame themselves and think they did something wrong in raising their child. They feel isolated and confused about everything. Parents try their best to raise their child, so when their children hit them with the news, all these emotions arise. Some cry, some scream, so just want to get away. 

               I feel like the only way to deal with the news from your child, is to sit down and talk with them. They want to hear that you love them no matter what. Most homosexual people do not choose to be this way, so support would be great.These are feelings they can not control. Just how its 2nd nature for you to like the opposite sex. So when you discuss this lifestyle with them, you guys can become closer. Let them tell you their life and so forth. Parents can even get some books to read or go online and Google some things.

              Communication is key between parents and their children. Parents shouldn't think of their children as dinosaurs or aliens, just become supportive even if its something you don't like. Let them know that you don't want to see them being affectionate with their partner, but you will be by their side no matter what. At the end of the day, you gave birth to them and you won't disown them for what they do behind close doors. Its no ones business, not even yours.

               Some alternatives that can help you through these rough times will be some support organizations for parents. There is a popular one called PFLAG ( Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) . They have 500 chapters all over the United States. This organization can be really helpful to parents that just don't understand, but want to get closer to their homosexual child. It isn't that hard people. It's a new day and age. And children are more open-mined to a lot of things. Yes, the bible says its wrong, but parents aren't perfect either.

Can Homosexuals and Heterosexuals be Just Friends?

             Heterosexuals wanna know if they can befriend a homosexual. The answer is yes.Straight men and women have this thing where they think all gay men and women want them. Which is usually not the case at all. You gotta look at it like this, everyone has a preference and type. Just like you dont like that guy because he doesn't have muscles. The same way a gay/lesbian won't like you because your too short. Just because a homosexual prefers to sleep with the same sex doesnt mean they are attracted to every person in that sex.

              Or maybe im wrong, and straight people have had bad experiences with gays.Or they were taught that just because their lifestyle is wrong, I don't want to have ANYTHING to do with them...smh.. But I feel like you should give them a try because you might have more in common than you think....well minus the lifestyle and who you sleep with at night..lol...But a lot of the reasons that straight men don't like to be friends with a gay man is because they can be very dramatic and outspoken and most straight men are laid back.
               When it comes to looking good, can't nobody help you out better that a homosexual man. Now you have the guys that befriend gays because they give them a sense of style (metrosexual).Now women are scared to be around other gay women because, they have this vision of a manly looking woman with a buzz cut out to get them. They have to come and realize that at the end of the day, they still have that time of the month like you do. They have some lesbians that just like to be surrounded by beautiful straight women because they admire them.
                I just want to say to every heterosexual that won't befriend a homosexual because they think they want to sleep with them....YOU ARE NOT ALL THAT....THEY DON'T WANT YOU!!!!....ever heard of a real friendship.

WTF Kanye???

       OK Ok...This is definately off topic but I just had to speak of it. Grammy Winner/Controversial Rapper Kanye West really messed up this time. During the 2009 MTV Video Music Awards, while 19 year old country singer Taylor Swift was receiving her 1st award for "You Belong With Me" which won "Best Female Video", Kanye West interrupted Taylor's  Acceptance Speech by saying, " Im happy for you, but Beyonce had one of the best videos of all time". Taylor Swift stood there looking lost and and speechless, she didn't even get to finish her speech. This stunt that Kanye pulled even surprised Beyonce. MTV escorted Kanye West out the building.
       Now everybody wants to know, what the h*ll was on Kanye's mind. Prior to the show there are pictures of Kanye West drinking liquor on the red carpet. So was he drunk? Then others think that he was just being obnoxious and controversial like he always is. And lastly you have people thinking he's just being a ni%*er, which I think is extreme.
       There are many celebritites that think Kanye West took it to the extreme and are not so happy. For instance Pink the singer tweeted about how she felt on Sunday. One of her tweets called Kanye, " ...the biggest piece of sh*t on earth.... And later called him a douchebag. Other celebrities had some opinions as well about the situation.
        But the most surprising comment of them all was from the president of the United States calling Mr West a jack*ss. This incident was posted up by TMZ and was also tweeted by ABC but later yanked from Twitter. When it comes to that remark I think that was inappropriate from President Obama. Im sure that Kanye West voted for him, so that wasnt nice.
       Poor Kanye, what is he to do in this situation. He aplogized but some feel that is not enough. I think he needs to cool it for a while. Even though he speakes the truth....he did it kind of wrong....lol...funny guy!!!